When I was fourteen I began to go out with my friends to party’s and dances. I loved going to Quinceaneras, which are similar to Sweet Sixteen party’s. Most of the Quinceaneras that I attended were big with Bands that would play about two or three hours and of course they had a DJ. After, when I was about sixteen I began to go to dances, or better, concerts. When we would go out, we would be about 6 or more girls. Then, we would meet up with the boys. We would all have fun and dance until the music would stop. I thought that going out to party’s and to dances was the thing to do all my life. But, after high school, my thoughts had changed completely. At my job, in order to put in more hours I had to open my availability to work either morning or nights on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday s. Working for a restaurant, I had for sure the longest hours and would close mostly every weekend. I was getting the money I wanted which took over my ambition to go out to have fun. I had a few opportunities to ask my supervisor to give me one night off and I would explain to her that I had the urge to go see an artist and she would grant me that favor.
Now, having the short life experience that I have, I see my friends from high school still going out to dances or clubs in Los Angeles. They sometimes invite me to go with them, but I still do not think that I should go out rather than earn a few dollars. Once in a while, I accept to go out but I do not see myself having a stable mind set if I were to keep hanging out with my friends.
i loved quinceaneras too!
ReplyDeleteYou are growing up, and you see life from a different perspective. Congratulations! You are growing up.
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I agree that spending time with your friends is very special. It is awesome that you are having that "Ah-Hah" moment. Keep it Up!
ReplyDeleteI totally know what you mean, I feel the same way.
ReplyDeleteme too... i used to go out all the time to parties and quinces and then i got a job and ended up working thursday thru sunday know i feel like my job has taken over my life
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